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Aspergers, Personality Disorders and Dating....

2019.03.12 15:39 resaxchan Aspergers, Personality Disorders and Dating....

Oh my!
I had posted about a week or so ago about my Aspie-Aspie breakup and it got me thinking about co-morbid conditions and misdiagnosis, specifically Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) which shares traits or symptoms with Autism. I thought about posting in Aspergirls since I'm a woman, but personality disorders don't discriminate on gender. I'll try not to be too pedantic...hopefully.
Disclaimer: While I don't hold a degree, psychology is my special interest and I've obsessively studied abnormal psych for 10+ years...geez, way to have a life Resa. Please don't hesitate to call me out if I am spreading misinformation.
From shared experiences on Aspergirls, it does seem like a lot of women with Autism get labeled as Borderline before being diagnosed correctly. This scares me- society absolutely shuns BPD women (men have a MUCH lower diagnosis rate or are more likely to be diagnosed with Autism when they don't have it) and the stigma that goes with it can be extremely damaging. BPD is so grossly misunderstood it makes my blood pressure spike when I hear people using the diagnosis terminology as a way to say 'this woman be cray-cray'; it's similar to someone saying "I'm sooooo Autistic!" when they have a vaguely similar trait and zero common sense.
Before I connected dots and realized I am Autistic, I would ARGUE with my therapist that I had BPD- I would become obsessed with a significant other, depending on people I was with I would shift my personality to match theirs, I was a cutter (I still struggle), I had a difficult time figuring out and explaining my emotions which lead to meltdowns and I didn't have a sense of who I was. I ticked so many of the boxes there was absolutely no way I was anything but Borderline. Looking back, it pains me to admit that his counter argument of "Resa, you HATE people and you have NO problem with being alone. Your life doesn't depend on a relationship. You're not emotionally volatile and you don't act out on friends and loved ones." My symptoms were (are) caused by the Masking I've unconsciously done so long to fit into society, so of course I didn't know who I was. When I was having a meltdown because of my emotional state, I would cut, grab my hair and pull it hard, dig my nails into my skin, or punch my legs then rock with my arms wrapped tightly around a pillow. All this was done in the privacy of my bedroom, far removed from anyone that would be disturbed by the behavior. People have always been a special interest of mine (helloooo psychology) and I realized I tended to gravitate towards "damaged" people because, as terrible as this makes me sound, I tend to see other humans as puzzles to figure out then, you know, humans. It's extremely difficult for me to bond/attach with another person so the *counts on fingers* 3 times in 30 odd years I have, of course I'm going to be obsessive.
This is why opening the world of Autism research to women on the spectrum is so crucial- it's far to easy to slap a personality disorder on her and call it a day. Contrary to popular belief there are therapeutic measures for BPD which are extremely effective, however, other than helping identify emotional states (females AND males on the spectrum can all benefit from that) those therapeutic measures are ineffective for Autism. Why is this? Let's all say it together- "AUTSIM ISN'T A MENTAL ILLNESS OR SOMETHING THAT NEEDS TO CURED."
So that's my thoughts on BPD.
Speaking of obsessions: The ex-boyfriend I live with.
I have to remind myself that just because I want something, that doesn't mean the other person wants it. I'm not delusional, I tend forget other humans have their own unique feelings and opinions. I have to accept that he genuinely may not have feelings for me (even if we get along really great) other than friends and even if he did, he broke up with me. Aspies aren't exactly known for changing their minds once they make a decision and/or taking the lead to make that change. I read letters at him expressing my love for him, but I never actually ASKED to be his girlfriend again. So I made the decision that I would ASK one last time. If he says "Yes." huzzah! But if he says "No." then I'll cry (sob) and then accept it.
I'm almost 37 and I want to settle down so waiting on something that may never happen is a young woman's game, so I decided if it's a "No." I was going to put myself back on the market. The thought of starting the courtship process is exhausting and while most normal people may feel the tingly thrill of the hunt, it fills me with dread. Dating websites have so many options which requires talking to multiple people and going on multiple dates only to have a very small chance of finding someone worth investing time in. Plus I have really shitty self esteem from years of feeling like a mess of a human. And I'm fat. Okay, I'm chubby. I think I just need to hear some success stories or just positive thoughts about online dating as an Aspie.
I think I just want my ex back.
*sigh*
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2017.10.07 14:36 Humpaaa [H] ~450 Bundle Games (incl. Monthly) [W] Games (Lethis, Race Online) / Wishlist / Keys / Sack of Gems / Cards / Offers (+20)

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2017.09.09 14:06 Humpaaa [H] ~400 Bundle Games (incl. Monthly) [W] Games (dontbegrey, Race Online) / Wishlist / Keys / Sack of Gems / Cards / Offers (+0)

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2017.09.06 00:08 Humpaaa [H] ~400 Bundle Games (incl. Monthly) [W] Games (Caveblazers, Race Online) / Wishlist / Keys / Sack of Gems / Cards / Offers (+20)

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  • I do accept cards, but only cards of 900 specific games. These games are listed here
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2017.08.16 15:30 Humpaaa [H] ~400 Bundle Games (incl. Monthly) [W] Games (Shadow Bug, Race Online) / Wishlist / Keys / Sack of Gems / Cards / Offers (+15)

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  • I do accept cards, but only cards of 900 specific games. These games are listed here
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2017.07.31 20:33 Humpaaa [H] ~400 Bundle Games (incl. Monthly) [W] Games (Burn it Down, Race Online) / Wishlist / Keys / Sack of Gems / Cards / Offers (+30)

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2017.07.09 21:30 Humpaaa [H] ~370 Bundle Games (incl. Monthly) [W] Games (Race Online, World of One) / Wishlist / Keys / Sack of Gems / Cards / Offers (+5)

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  • I do accept cards, but only cards of 900 specific games. These games are listed here
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2017.06.30 04:04 Humpaaa [H] ~370 Bundle Games (incl. Monthly) [W] Games (Race Online) / Wishlist / Keys / Sack of Gems / Cards / Offers (+0)

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  • I also accept Sack of Gems, ToDs, TF2-Keys, Dota 2 Keys and CSGO-Keys.
  • However, I strongly prefer to trade for games i am interested in.
  • I do accept cards, but only cards of 900 specific games. These games are listed here
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2017.06.20 20:34 Humpaaa [H] ~370 Bundle Games (incl. Monthly) [W] Games (Slain - Back from Hell) / Wishlist / Keys / Sack of Gems / Cards / Offers (+11)

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  • I am fine with game offers, but i have many bundled games (1800+ on my main account) myself.
  • I also accept Sack of Gems, ToDs, TF2-Keys, Dota 2 Keys and CSGO-Keys.
  • However, I strongly prefer to trade for games i am interested in.
  • I do accept cards, but only cards of 900 specific games. These games are listed here
  • I don't accept Refined Metal (aka Ref), Reclaimed Metal (aka Rec) or Scrap Metal (aka Scrap), because they are not marketable.
  • I don't use Origin and Desura, please don't offer me Keys for these plattforms.
  • The number in brackets at the end of the title (+0, +1, +2...) is the number of new games in my list.
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2017.06.08 13:56 Humpaaa [H] ~370 Bundle Games (incl. Monthly) [W] Games (Delver, Slain) / Wishlist / Keys / Sack of Gems / Cards / Offers (+3)

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  • I am fine with game offers, but i have many bundled games (1800+ on my main account) myself.
  • I also accept Sack of Gems, ToDs, TF2-Keys, Dota 2 Keys and CSGO-Keys.
  • However, I strongly prefer to trade for games i am interested in.
  • I do accept cards, but only cards of 900 specific games. These games are listed here
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  • I don't use Origin and Desura, please don't offer me Keys for these plattforms.
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2017.06.03 21:51 Humpaaa [H] ~360 Bundle Games (incl. Monthly) [W] Games (Rain World, Slain) / Wishlist / Keys / Sack of Gems / Cards / Offers (+0)

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  • Project Cars DLC (Bundled: HB)
  • The Final Station DLC (Bundled: HB)
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  • I also accept Sack of Gems, ToDs, TF2-Keys, Dota 2 Keys and CSGO-Keys.
  • However, I strongly prefer to trade for games i am interested in.
  • I do accept cards, but only cards of 900 specific games. These games are listed here
  • I don't accept Refined Metal (aka Ref), Reclaimed Metal (aka Rec) or Scrap Metal (aka Scrap), because they are not marketable.
  • I don't use Origin and Desura, please don't offer me Keys for these plattforms.
  • The number in brackets at the end of the title (+0, +1, +2...) is the number of new games in my list.
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2017.06.02 19:36 Humpaaa [H] ~360 Bundle Games (incl. Monthly) [W] Games (Rain World, Slain) / Wishlist / Keys / Sack of Gems / Cards / Offers (+4)

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  • Project Cars DLC (Bundled: HB)
  • The Final Station DLC (Bundled: HB)
  • Rain World (Bundled: HB)
  • Delver (Bundled: HB)
  • Slain: Back from Hell (Bundled: Bundlestars)

General Info

  • I am fine with game offers, but i have many bundled games (1800+ on my main account) myself.
  • I also accept Sack of Gems, ToDs, TF2-Keys, Dota 2 Keys and CSGO-Keys.
  • However, I strongly prefer to trade for games i am interested in.
  • I do accept cards, but only cards of 900 specific games. These games are listed here
  • I don't accept Refined Metal (aka Ref), Reclaimed Metal (aka Rec) or Scrap Metal (aka Scrap), because they are not marketable.
  • I don't use Origin and Desura, please don't offer me Keys for these plattforms.
  • The number in brackets at the end of the title (+0, +1, +2...) is the number of new games in my list.
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2017.05.30 20:03 Humpaaa [H] ~360 Bundle Games (incl. Monthly) [W] Games (Rain World, Slain) / Wishlist / Keys / Sack of Gems / Cards / Offers (+1)

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  • Project Cars DLC (Bundled: HB)
  • The Final Station DLC (Bundled: HB)
  • Rain World (Bundled: HB)
  • Delver (Bundled: HB)
  • Slain: Back from Hell (Bundled: Bundlestars)

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  • I am fine with game offers, but i have many bundled games (1800+ on my main account) myself.
  • I also accept Sack of Gems, ToDs, TF2-Keys, Dota 2 Keys and CSGO-Keys.
  • However, I strongly prefer to trade for games i am interested in.
  • I do accept cards, but only cards of 900 specific games. These games are listed here
  • I don't accept Refined Metal (aka Ref), Reclaimed Metal (aka Rec) or Scrap Metal (aka Scrap), because they are not marketable.
  • I don't use Origin and Desura, please don't offer me Keys for these plattforms.
  • The number in brackets at the end of the title (+0, +1, +2...) is the number of new games in my list.
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2017.05.30 11:50 mewster92 Rant contro TeeTee e l'impossibilità di reso.

TL;DR: maglietta presa da TeeTee diversa dalla preview, mi viene detto che è tuttapposto bello e che non rimborsano al contrario di quanto dichiarato -e al contrario di qualunque regolamentazione-.
 
Ragazzi, sono veramente euforicscocciato. Un paio di settimane fa comprai una maglietta su TeeTee (questa per la precisione, Japanese World, che ho apprezzato come pochi altri design prima d'ora dato il mashup di personaggi d'infanzia e non), e tutto contento aspetto che arrivi la maglietta.
Mi arriva, apro il pacchetto, e... cosastovedendo
(evidenziazione dei particolari: originale e preview)
Vabbè, mi dico, andiamo a vedere come gestiscono i resi. Pagina "Termini e condizioni", i paragrafi che ho ritenuto importanti sono:
Le t-shirt visibili in homepage non sono reali ma frutto di un’operazione grafica che permette di ottenere una fedele riproduzione (mockup) di quel che verrà stampato.
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Nel caso in cui un cliente dovesse ricevere una t-shirt difettosa o della taglia sbagliata (ovvero sia non corrispondente a quella ordinata), Tee Tee si impegna a fornire allo stesso due opzioni: o un rimborso completo dell’acquisto effettuato o la possibilità di scegliere, completamente a piacere, una delle t-shirt future.
Do per scontato quindi che quello che se ho ricevuto una maglietta diversa dalla "fedele riproduzione" presentata, allora vuol dire che ho ricevuto una maglietta "difettosa", e mando una prima mail, con foto di preview e di maglietta ricevuta.
Da qui è stata una discesa senza fine in paradossi e prese in giro che non mi sarei mai aspettato.
 
TeeTee
Abbiamo controllato la stampa anche con il personale della nostra serigrafia (prestiamo la massima attenzione a come vengono le stampe, ovviamente), e confermiamo ancora una volta la conformità agli standard.
La foto dell'altra maglia che alleghi non è di una nostra Tee, le nostre sono tutte stampate in quel modo secondo il file preparato appositamente dalla designer per il nostro sistema di stampa serigrafica (che è il primo sistema di stampa in quanto a resa e durata nel tempo). I designer hanno però il pieno controllo dei diritti delle loro grafiche, quindi non escludiamo che quella maglia sia stata acquistata su qualche altro sito.
Senza scendere in particolari tecnicismi che forse ti tedierebbero (halftones etc), va sempre precisato che un conto è un disegno digitale riportato su uno schermo a 16,8 milioni di colori, un conto è la stampa di inchiostro su un tessuto reale. Converrai con noi che è difficile riprodurre al 2000% ciò che è digitale - si tratta di limiti fisici.
Quella che vedi su TT è una preview ben più realistica di ciò che verrà alla fine, ma anche per questioni che variano da schermo a schermo (luminosità, brillantezza fra le altre) non è possibile aspettarsi una stampa identica.
Come già detto, quindi, confermiamo di nuovo la conformità ai nostri standard.
 
Risposta mia
Dopo ulteriori ricerche, sono arrivato a una preview di un particolare fornito da teetee stesso della stessa maglietta (particolare) per cui confrontando il particolare con la foto che ho mandato (il cui colore è molto più rappresentativo della preview nonostante sia visto attraverso uno schermo) per cui Link è per metà blu, o di nuovo, confrontando anche il solo colore di Mew, che da rosa chiaro è diventato abbronzato, si vede chiaramente un prodotto diverso da quello presentato.
Ora, io ho mandato la richiesta di rimborso perché su "Termini e condizioni" sta esplicitamente scritto "Le t-shirt visibili in homepage non sono reali ma frutto di un’operazione grafica che permette di ottenere una fedele riproduzione (mockup) di quel che verrà stampato" e "Nel caso in cui un cliente dovesse ricevere una t-shirt difettosa o della taglia sbagliata (ovvero sia non corrispondente a quella ordinata), Tee Tee si impegna a fornire allo stesso due opzioni".
Date queste due premesse, mi sembra corretto assumere che se acquistando dal vostro sito ho ricevuto una maglietta ben diversa dalla "fedele riproduzione" presentata, allora vuol dire che ho ricevuto una maglietta "difettosa" (cioè non corrispondente a quella ordinata), indipendentemente dal fatto che la vostra serigrafia (che comunque è in grado di fare stampe di ottima qualità, come ho riscontrato da precedenti acquisti dopotutto), abbia stampato seguendo i vostri standard.
Peraltro, come mai allora altre magliette acquistate da voi non hanno avuto lo stesso problema di differenze preview/prodotto finale, se seguono tutte lo stesso tipo di stampa?
Riassumendo, dato quanto scritto nella vostra sezione "Termini e condizioni", ed essendomi evidentemente arrivata una maglietta diversa dalla fedele riproduzione offerta (per cui posso, se serve, scattare ulteriori foto come dimostrazione, ma è già evidente guardando il solo Mew), chiedo di nuovo che si proceda a un reso con rimborso dato che non credo esista su TeeTee questa stessa maglietta della qualità proposta dalla preview.
 
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purtroppo non riusciamo ad aprire il link che ci hai copiato [l'img del particolare, ndr], ma la nostra risposta rimane la stessa.
Non vi è differenza di qualità, le modalità (e la qualità) di stampa sono sempre le stesse, ma dipendono sempre da molti fattori a monte che convergono nella creazione del design. Ovviamente un design a tinte piatte presenta meno lavorazione, mentre un design con sfumature e ombreggiature necessita di maggior lavoro e di artifici come quello che vedi utilizzato qui.
Ad esempio, la puntinatura blu che vedi, ad esempio, è stata voluta dalla designer per creare ombreggiature che non fossero troppo pesanti; sulla base del suo file di stampa è stata poi realizzata la preview che vedi sul sito (se ingrandisci potrai vedere la puntinatura di cui parliamo).
Bisogna poi considerare, come già detto, che un conto è un file a schermo ad alta risoluzione (senza parlare delle impostazioni di luminosità e contrasto e saturazione dei colori, che sono praticamente un caso unico per ogni schermo), un conto è la stampa su tessuto, che presenta - come già detto - limiti fisici.
Non possiamo che ribadire che non c'è niente che non vada in questo design, quindi non riteniamo ci siano le condizioni per un reso.
Resta però aperta una questione per noi ugualmente importante, ovvero quella della tua soddisfazioni. Ci hai scritto email molto dettagliate per argomentare il tuo malcontento nei confronti di una nostra Tee.
Ecco, per noi è fondamentale che voi siate felici di ogni Tee che scegliete, e in questo caso è chiaro che non sia così.
Siamo mortificati, Francesco, e pur non potendo procedere con un rimborso completo abbiamo deciso di venirti incontro emettendo un buono del valore di 6€ che potrai utilizzare in futuro su Tee Tee. Ti potrebbe interessare?
 
Io, a cui cominciano a girare le scatole per la presa in giro ormai palese
Io non riesco a comprendere come possiate dire che la preview ( http://i.imgur.com/zMg55VZ.jpg ) sia corrispondente al prodotto da me ricevuto ( http://i.imgur.com/wTwWP8j.jpg ) (ho evidenziato su entrambe le immagini alcuni esempi critici), e pure zoomando sulla preview scaricata dal vostro sito ( http://i.imgur.com/Gkadw6Q.png ) ci posso mettere tutta la buona volontà ma i puntini proprio non si vedono, al contrario di quanto da voi dichiarato nella precedente risposta.
Inoltre è evidente che non si può trattare di una questione di contrasto e saturazione dello schermo, perché osservando la stessa immagine su più schermi ( posso fare foto degli schermi se proprio necessario ) in nessun caso è stata osservata una preview così tanto diversa dall'originale da poter giustificare una plausibile deformazione dei colori che renderebbe valida la maglietta. Per vedere la preview più simile al prodotto originale dovrei andare a manomettere i settaggi dello schermo per forzare una visione diversa dalla realtà non solo della preview, ma di letteralmente qualunque altra foto osservata a schermo.
Se nonostante tutte queste prove da me fornite voi vorrete considerare ancora la maglietta "una fedele riproduzione della preview osservata al momento dell'acquisto", e non vorrete tenere fede a quanto da voi dichiarato nella vostra sezione "Termini e condizioni", io non ho alcun problema ad avvalermi del diritto di recesso regolamentato dall’art. 64 e seguenti dal decreto legislativo. 206/05, per cui in ogni caso io richiederò il rimborso della spesa sostenuta e voi riavrete indietro la maglietta che, essendo fedele alla preview come da voi dichiarato, non avrete problemi a rivendere.
Le possibilità che vedo a questo punto sono tre:
1) rispettate quanto dichiarato nella sezione "Termini e condizioni", mi rimborsate della spesa da me sostenuta durante l'acquisto (17 euro).
2) rispettate quanto dichiarato nella sezione "Termini e condizioni", mi rimborsate della spesa da me sostenuta durante l'acquisto (17 euro) e, se volete indietro la maglietta per poterla rivendere, anche della spesa di spedizione di ritorno (scelta non disponibile nella sezione, ma io la vedo lo stesso come una possibilità in quanto potrete poi rivenderla)
3) non rispettate quanto dichiarato nella sezione "Termini e condizioni", e io mi avvarrò dei diritti di recesso per gli acquisti online per cui io invierò una raccomandata in cui annuncerò il voler avvalermi di tale diritto alla vostra sede legale (Via Taro, 1, Borgo Val di Taro (PR) 43043), vi restituisco la maglietta e voi mi rimborsate della spesa da me sostenuta durante l'acquisto (17 euro).
Dato che in tutti e tre i casi da me proposti prevedo di ricevere il rimborso di 17 euro, se proprio avete a cuore la mia soddisfazione come dichiarato nella precedente mail vi chiedo di scegliere una tra le prime due proposte, in quanto per la terza dovrei spendere almeno la metà di quanto ricevuto con il rimborso, ma comunque riotterrei più di quanto offerto con il buono da 6€ contro-offerto, in aggiunta alla delusione per un servizio che ritenevo più vicino al consumatore data la tipologia di prodotti in vendita.
Se non ricevo risposta entro la serata di domani, procederò automaticamente con la terza proposta.
 
Risposta finale di TeeTee
Confermiamo la perfetta conformità agli standard di stampa, ci spiace per il risentimento che intuiamo ma non vi sono alternative.
Sei assolutamente libero di procedere come ritieni maggiormente opportuno: se necessario, ci vedremo in tribunale.
Dove non vi sarà problema alcuno a far valere le nostre ragioni, assolutamente.
Se poi il giudice riterrà necessario il rimborso di 17€, chiaramente esso verrà emesso.
 
Va da se che non ho motivo di ricorrere addirittura al giudice, manderò la raccomandata come da legge, rimando la maglietta, recupero i soldi e morta li.
Ora, quello che mi scoccia è con che faccia tosta mi viene detto che la preview corrisponde a quanto io ho ricevuto, che la colpa è dello schermo e che per loro la stampa segue i loro standard qualitativi quando di qualità nella maglietta ricevuta non si vede l'ombra di quanto proposto dalla preview, e che in nessun posto del sito viene indicato tutto quello che mi è stato detto per mail, e che ad aver saputo prima allora avrei evitato di acquistare da qui una maglietta di quella qualità aspettata. Quello che mi chiedo e che non saprò mai a meno di chiedere in giro è, mi è davvero arrivata una maglietta paccata, o tutte le persone che hanno preso questo design hanno ricevuto lo stesso, ma sono io l'unico cretino che ritiene non rispecchi quanto acquistato? Also, in base all'ultima risposta mi viene da chiedermi se non abbiano qualche asso nella manica per cui possano svicolare dall'articolo di salcazzo sul reso di merci comprate online

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Dato che pare che io abbia tutti i diritti di chiedere il recesso, ho mandato una mail in cui ne annuncio l'intenzione. Ora restituirò la maglietta, vediamo che accade.
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